Is Pain Synonymous with Love?

When you love someone, then you do get hurt sometimes. Sometimes it happens and we have to live through it.

So do not run away from it; ACCEPT IT.

Feeling pain & getting hurt is all a part of love. Where there is LOVE, it also sometimes brings PAIN. But to be afraid of pain and to stop loving, and shutting down completely; is foolishness, which a lot of people do. To stop being in love because it hurts at times is not an intelligent decision at all.

It is the most common behavior that one ever does. But for those who sail through that little pinch and move on, will get the real, blissful love.

The lower aspect of love is understood as HURT which arises from different kinds of bondage I.e. attachments, expectations, desires, wants etc. Due to which ego arises and it’s your EGO that gets hurt.

Pain is ethereal.

Without awareness of pain; we all be like zombies alive but dead.

Pain falls in sensory perception known as jnanendriyas, it is crucial for evolvement of a person. 

Without pain we would be senseless.

Hurt on the other side is ego based & creates suffering. 

Pain & suffering are different. The former belongs to heart the latter to mind (ego) or AHAMKARA.

When u accept love & allow the pain to rise & move ahead beyond the pain; you will reach enlightenment which is built on the foundation of unconditional love & faith. They are the base on which the fountain head of wisdom & understanding arises.

In simple terms; oneness of love embracing all equalities in total equilibrium.

That is known or termed as ENLIGHTENED.

There what u find is > SAT - CHIT - ANANDA
which means....

SAT - absolute bliss consciousness ⊙
CHIT - static consciousness (pure still mind) □
ANANDA - cosmic energy of life (joy) ♡

BE BLESSED STAY BLESSED; ALWAYS.

PROBLEM - SOLUTION - RESOLUTION

Is there any difference in them or are they same or are they different aspects?

95% people see problems, 4% solutions & only 1% resolution. Simply because they do not understand themselves.

Can the answer really be so simple?

YES

People who are stressed & locked with fears see problems, people who want to move ahead will try to find solutions for their problems, RESOLUTION whoever follows will bring inner wisdom.

WHY SO?

Because problems & solutions revolve around ISSUES, issues are man-made & created by wants & desires. On the other hand resolutions overlook the issue and see where the conflict lies & try to overcome them, this understanding arises only from knowing ourselves & our needs, it’s having a different perspective, what usually is called the third angle or view.

Any conflict always begins from inner YOU.

Working this way not only do you find determination; but helps you to keep your balance in any challenge or adverse situation. This covers all circumstances in life.

HOW?

By a simple understanding that most situations can be changed, but some cannot. You are not here to change the world, you are here to change yourselves, to become better & to evolve, more towards humanity & walk your true destiny. We all are born with a purpose, to find it and understand the purpose, is called RESOLUTION.

Acceptance & awareness, together build the bridge on which a person can walk towards his/her own life & live a life full of purpose, without hurting others or own self. Resolving the conflicts within; will help you to access the wholesome resources that you have within your mind, you will become RESOURCEFUL & creativity will out flow in ABUNDANCE.

Resourcefulness will make you tolerant & teach patience. You will develop your own inner qualities. When you develop this qualities & remain true to your own aspirations, your inspiration will enfold to a higher magnitude, taking you from an individual towards the process/progress of individuation, a beautiful person to a beautiful human being.

As BUDDHA says " if you can do something to change the circumstances, why be upset about it, if you cannot do anything to change the circumstances, why be upset about it."

SO WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE - 95% - 4% - 1%?

All depends on us & our choices, choose wisely.

Be blessed stay blessed
ALWAYS

DOES FAMILIARITY BREED CONTEMPT?

I have heard lots of people speaking about this, I wonder if they ever contemplated on it?

What is contempt?

CON means to fool someone or ourselves, TEMPT means there is a seed of temptation, seed of any temptation only breeds discontent.

A person who has never understood him/herself, but spend their time in finding faults, being judgmental, affected & inflected by I- know-me-myself syndrome, are the best ground for contempt to breed.

If we know each other, why should we hold hate or contempt for each other? Why it cannot be love, understanding, giving nature, blessing nature, nature of peace?

Is it not how our universe is, loving, nurturing & giving?

I don't see wind having contempt for the sky or the sun to the moon or earth to the soil, are they not seeing each other and living harmoniously with each other for millions of years?

Than why us, human’s if we know each other, hold such things within us? Is it not something to think about? But alas, with monkey brains & actions, busying in only stupid verbal illusions & delusionary ways, feed by our own inner EGO, thinking always I AM RIGHT, I KNOW EVERYTHING attitude, we become chauvinist & chauvinistic view certainly starts breeding CONTEMPT, you are only fooling yourself, not anyone else, a blinded, close mind leads to stagnation and a breeding ground for VIRUS, than don't cry if your hard disk crashes, what do you expect with such a view point, LOVE?

Change the way you think, open your limited minds towards unlimiting, think before you act or speak or write or send anything.

Pay attention to YOURSELF, see your own truth, change, go from mere consciousness towards the supreme consciousness, than familiarity will not breed contempt, but CONTENT.

Don't look in the mirror at your mere reflection, instead check the image that is being reflected.
Weed out seed of discontent & hate & contempt from your heart, and SOW the seeds of love & flow harmoniously within & with each other, just the way nature & universe, the kingdom of God IS.

Stop self-pitying yourself and blaming others, stop controlling others, stop interference, stop calling names to others, stop making jokes on others, its only YOU who look foolish, wisdom of the wise is to love not hurt others, cherish others, bless others, only than you will stop being the breeding ground for contempt & what will bloom in its place is a garden of love, humanity, humbleness, gratitude,

THEN

FAMILIARITY WILL BRING THE GRACE OF GOD UNTO YOU & OTHERS.

so what do you choose to be a BREEDING GROUND OR BLOOMING GARDEN?

BE BLESSED STAY BLESSED
ALWAYS.